They think sex is about sticking their dicks in and pounding like a machine. Guys get called "loose" when they've learned how to flex - and have strengthened - a muscle. Like any muscle, if you work it, it strengthens. If you can train the spinchter to open on command, you can also close it, and this means the muscle is stronger now than before. The idea that "loose" holes are weakened or overworked through too much sex is simply false. He's essentially shaming you for getting better at what you enjoy doing. Then some asshole top comes along and says he doesn't like loose bottoms - or worse, he calls your ass loose. You use toys and learn ass-stretching techniques and practice with Ben Wa balls and kegel balls and butt plugs, and gradually you learn how to take dicks like a champ, which inevitably means learning how to open and close your hole (your anal spinchter) on command. Your tight ass might feel good for tops, but it makes sex more painful for you, and it will take you longer to get used to the feeling of getting fucked.īut you practice, and you get better. It's pretty cruel: You're a new bottom and your ass is "tight," meaning you have not learned how to train the anal spinchter to relax or open on command. How many jokes have you heard about loose butts and the guys who reportedly have them? The idea of being "loose" is something implicitly linked to shame. Stop calling experienced bottoms "loose."
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